in relationships. Parents and children should do their best to communicate with much openness and honesty with no judgement. Many times, I found mothers, not just single mothers…. went on an endless spiral of self-pity. Playing the victim to gain attention. They take to heart how their children behave towards them instead of sharing their […]
Sometimes fantasy cannot outrun reality. When life does not seem to meet my expectations and I started hitting myself with deep introspect of my life choices….. I realised I’ve grown too small. Too small in hope no one bothers me with their challenges. As a child good at cleaning messes including others, I’ve been thrown
Warning: Long winded blog post. I’m trying to cram all my experiences in 1 blog post as much as I can. Anyway… For healing for the above and the unknown…. (meaning you went to the doctors, had many tests and they cannot find any issues with you and your health but you know there is
Heart attack can be instantaneous, abrupt and invisible death for some. Actually we each have been given the signs and little symptoms before the huge attack. Only difference is are we going to listen and start healing or ignore it’s cries for help many times and let it happen….? As we age, we tend to
Sometimes we have this illusion that no one will come and rescue us from the mess we made in life. Felt trapped in our man-made cage. Helplessness and hopelessness resides and continues filling in sinking us further into the abyss of nothingness and darkness. Drowning us in melancholy with each day passing us by. Or
Watching my clients having meltdowns are much different than me experiencing my own. I’m not sure whatever society you are in, whether they permit or not… people have meltdowns all the time. And it’s OK. I find it quite revealing and liberating. Better in than out For mine in an south east asian, Muslim family
I’m thankful that Islam is my religion. Through out my many wanderings around the world, I’ve interacted and connected with people of various faiths, beliefs and cultures. I’ve also hang with priests and teachers from myriad religions. I’ve never undertook the idea that I’m going to or able to convert or revert anyone to Islam.
If you have wandered about my social media, you might have known I’m on a journey into 3 holy lands. A DIY stay of more than a month in which I have dreamt to fulfil since I was younger (only recently Saudi govt allowed peeps to do umrah/haj without any agency, even women can travel
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How do I explain the ups and downs of knowing love through out my life? (still learning). Muslims, men especially…. have to go to their obligatory Friday prayers and listen to the Friday summons and share them to their families. Today is Friday. I’m not a preacher but as a parent, I’m doing my best
Our expiration date is our choice. One day in our lives, we each have to wrestle with our deepest truth. Yes, our lives may seem predestined, our expiry dates seemed certain known only to the Almighty but after my own experiences with departed loves ones, myself and clients… I realised we do have free will.
