Day 77….
What I feel like saying….
When I was new in business, one of the stuff I did was MLM. I wasn’t active. I was there to learn and observe. I’m very interested to understand behind people’s motivation and their tribes.
Anyway, I was taught how to “reel” in the fishes with a simple system.
And so I started “experimenting” with my friends far and wide. And especially those I’ve not been updated with.
It worked. But eventually I left. Because I felt that i was not being my authentic self. I was connecting with others just to play the numbers game.
Many, many years later…
Which was not so long ago…
Not wanting to connect with anyone as I grieved… I shutdown most of my connections and open only to very selected few.
People sought me out and I thought it was out of love.
And I bit the bait… just to know later on, that it was just business, nothing personal.
Being on the receiving end, I understood better what I did in my past.
I felt a bit lousy after that.
And the person in concerned was not interested nor did he listened to what I’ve shared.
Double the lousiness.
As my heart was still bleeding, I felt as if the world was unkind and do not really care about me.
People like me who viewed relationships more from the heart and soul is more sensitive especially when someone dear to us have passed on. We are not concerned about anything else… But I opened up just a lil bit cos I thought he/she wanted to show care and concern about my updates.
So please, if you are someone like that…
don’t for a moment think, that for the sake of earning money, you are willing to lose out a beautiful friend and the relationship. Because that is more priceless.
And just be bluntly honest…
“Hi….. , I know I’ve not been connecting with you for past years…. But now, I just want to sell u something.”
No need to start conversation with- “how r u? And how’s your family n such….”
Just get straight to the game…
Or perhaps share with me your motivation for wanting to sell me whatever it is…
I can listen with empathy… And perhaps buy.
Be honest.
If you are selling….
Don’t pretend to be concerned about others’ welfare.
Tell truthfully about your sales intentions.
Still bleeding,
Lina.
P. S: Together, let’s awaken our world by being our most authentic, joyous, abundant, loving selves.
It’s OK, if you don’t belong to the crowd. Belong to yourself is enough. You are ENOUGH.
Be the unique you and shine. You matter.
We matter. The world need us in our colourful truths. Stand strong. Rise bold.
Don’t matter if there is anyone with you or supporting you or the fact that you felt unwanted or rejected.
You don’t need permission to be you. You are a life warrior. Have courage to do what feels right to you.
Stop hiding in the shadows. Stop concealing your imperfections.
It’s OK if you have unhealed wounds. Resolute to learn/unlearn, grow and heal them. We are all works-in-progress.
Your existence is important and it is powerful. There is a great purpose/s in you being alive.
Remember that.
I may not know you but if I did, I know, I will love you. Because no matter what we are, we each deserved to be loved, seen, heard and matter.
This is what I believe. This is my truth. I’m Honouring it by sharing and spreading my message.
What is your truth? Get to know, explore. Then, Express and Share it.
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